Does a man really love with his eyes, and a woman with her soul?

What are the differences between female love and male love?

How to distinguish love from infatuation?

What does the phenomenon of love mean for a man and a woman?

What place does love occupy in life for representatives of different sexes?

The nature of the mating strategy of the biological species of people

At the core marriage strategy Men and women have the most important and powerful instinct - the continuation of the human race.

The need to preserve the species drives people through emotions. At the same time, people often do not realize the true motivation of their actions.

The primitive instinct that arouses in a woman the desire to decorate herself does not say why she should do it - she just likes it. Logic dictates that women do this to attract male attention. It is interesting that representatives of the fair sex began to decorate themselves even before they put on clothes.

So that she can choose, she needs to conquer the maximum number of men. Moreover, for a wider choice there should be as many of them as possible. Ideally, she will make all the men around her fall in love with her. But it will belong to one thing - the best. It turns out that the meaning of the female primitive mating strategy is to have the largest possible number of fans.

By the way, in nature there is no such shameful phenomenon as rape. A female of any species can refuse without any consequences for herself.

From a survival standpoint, the main thing for a man is to increase his genetic heritage. He should look for as many partners as possible. Biologically, he has no obstacles - he can make children all his life.

A woman must start a family in order to raise children. The survival of the offspring is ensured by a full-fledged family, where there is a mother and father - the breadwinner and protector. Love is an instinctive attachment of nature that encourages a fickle man to take care of his offspring.

Nowadays, there is no urgent need for the reproduction and preservation of the human species. But there remains a “memory”, thanks to which a woman must fulfill her function of childbearing. Without this, she cannot feel absolutely happy. Men do not necessarily want to get married and raise offspring.

So, a woman has an instinctive focus on “family,” and a man is looking for “his place in life.” Love, as one of the strongest instinctive feelings, is important for a woman emotionally and for fulfilling her feminine destiny.

The power of a woman's love

If a woman has made her choice and found her Man, she will follow him through fire and water. She is ready to encourage him when he needs support, will be on his side, even when she is not entirely sure that he is right, will listen, even when his words are not at all worthy of attention.

Without taking into account his actions and the opinions of his friends, who suggest that he is a weakling and a loser, despite his statements to end the relationship right now, she will live for him. And she will not stop fighting for his heart. Contrary to his statement about the inconsistency of her desire to bear the title of His One and Only.

Women's love will overcome any temporary obstacles and obstacles in life.

But a woman should not think that a man will love her the same way in return.

That’s why men’s love is different and not like women’s.

A man loves a woman in his own way. He won't call her half an hour later to tell her that he loves her more at 5:30 than at 5:00. He won't sit with a woman and stroke her head when she's sick. It is absolutely unrealistic to count on such sacrificial love from a man.

However, male love is also love. Although it is different from the love given and desired by women.

What are the manifestations of male love?

Men love differently than women. Loving man will be ready to do three things that serve as a manifestation of his love: inform about his love, support and protect.

A manifestation of true male love is his willingness to tell everyone: "This is my woman". The woman will be given an official status higher than just the title of “my friend.” This status indicates that he placed the woman in his heart.

This is an opportunity to tell those around him that he is proud of the right to be near a woman, that he has serious plans for her. This is an application for a long-term cordial relationship. This conditional code, telling other men “no move.”

If you have been dating for more than three months and don’t even know his friends, and when he introduces you, he introduces you as his girlfriend, it means that for now there is no place for you in his plans for the future.

A man's calling to provide

For thousands of years, a man has been convinced of his primary purpose - to provide for his family. Under any circumstances, loved ones should not be in need. To become a breadwinner is the meaning of a man’s calling.

Sometimes he just had to meet a woman who would open him up best qualities: real woman knows how to convince a man to be the breadwinner.

A man is your protector

If a man loves, anyone who simply thinks of offending or offending his woman risks being destroyed. A man will sweep away everything in his path to make sure that everyone who treated you disrespectfully pays for it. This is his nature.

Three key needs of a man

Family support

Men need to feel supported like they are kings, even if that's not entirely true.

A man is constantly in a state of combat readiness, observing and assessing other men nearby. At any moment he is ready to protect you and all his achievements. Therefore, it is important for him to relax at home. He needs to hear: “Honey, thank you. We love you and need you, we are happy to have you.”

It is important for them to feel like kings, even when they do not behave like royalty. Trust me, the more you make them feel special, the more they will be able to give to you.

Female fidelity

Devotion is a man's understanding of female love. Devotion and love are synonymous for a man. The love that a woman demands is beautiful, but a man's love is different from a woman's. She's different. A man's love is an amazingly powerful thing. If a woman's devotion is true, a man will indeed kill anyone for you without hesitation.

Sex is like air to him

There is nothing else in the world that men would like constantly and strongly, without which they simply cannot live. A man has a physical need to be connected with the woman he loves. And he realizes this connection by making love to her.

Sensual emotions, hugs, emotional conversations - men do this because it is important for women. At the same time, you need to understand that a man is connected to a woman by sex. This is for him to connect, recharge and reconnect.

For most men, the need for sex is the same as the need for air. Even if a man loves you very much, but at the same time you dosage sex, he will have to find it elsewhere. Men understand what is possible different circumstances. You just can’t come up with excuses ad infinitum. No matter how much a man loves you, no matter how much he values ​​his status as the head of the family and the owner of the house, as soon as you try to dose out sex, problems are sure to arise.

Support. Devotion. Sex. You must provide these key needs for a man. And in return you will receive a man who can move mountains for you and do everything you want.

Happy holiday to you, my dear,
I congratulate you today.
I present a storm of passion
On February 23.

I wish for male strength,
Let your eyes burn with desire,
Let the abyss of beautiful feelings
It will soon consume us.

My protector, my lover,
Congratulations on the Twenty-third,
On this holiday, February day,
I wish you joy
If we are with you
See each other more often,
I promise that your wishes
All yours will come true!

Today I will paint you the color of love
Calendar sheet for you,
Congratulations, sultry macho,
From February 23rd.

I send you love and ardor,
Adoration and passion
I wish that, my dear,
Life as a villain is good.

My dear friend, my lover,
I want to congratulate you
Be happy on Defender's Day,
I'll whisper in your ear,
Good luck, happiness, my dear,
Come to me more often
Strive forward and listen to your heart,
Find the right path!

Happy Twenty-third, my dear man,
My lover, reliable protector,
Even though you and I don’t live together,
But together it’s good for us, it’s not difficult,
I wish you patience
Long years, kindness and prosperity,
Know that you are the best for me,
I give all of myself without reserve!

I want to be with you day and night,
And I can’t resist you.
You are my hero, you are my lover,
What else can I say.

I congratulate you on Defender's Day,
I'll pour us some stronger wine.
And I'll stay with you until the morning,
Although she’s not your wife.

Happy Defender of the Fatherland Day,
My beloved human being,
My beloved, my distant one,
My handsome bright-eyed!

Be healthy - healthy is better
Disperse the clouds with your hands,
Be happy - just happy,
Have fun and look at the stars!

On the day of Russian men
I'll remember you
It was not in vain that you appeared
Suddenly in my destiny.

You're almost like my husband,
Whatever you say,
So happy holiday to you,
He's come, look!

Today is an important and bright day,
Even though it's still winter outside.
Your cherished dream will come true
Yours, I will help myself.

You are brave, passionate, very smart,
On Defender of the Fatherland day,
I wish you day and night,
Love and rainbow lights.

Congratulations on Defender's Day,
The tiger is ardent, my hurry.
Wish you health and strength
I want it in a fiery body.

Let there always be a desire
For romance, love.
May your wishes come true
Hidden ones are yours.

Happy holiday, my most passionate,
Congratulations from me.
Showcase talents
Surprise me more often.

So that your battlefield
There was only a bed.
So that you are always ready powerfully
You and I have to fight.

My dear, my desired man,
At least on this day you will be with your wife,
You are my golden protector, beloved,
You make all my dreams come true.

And on men's day I wish you,
Health, joy, goodness,
I love you very much, I adore you,
And I'm looking forward to seeing you!

My dear, congratulations on February 23! I wish you to always feel strong and omnipotent, like the wind, free and strong-willed! May nothing be able to break you, and may luck be on your side!

You are the object of my dreams!
I'm crazy about beauty
and your charm,
How lucky I am to have you!

Don't look around
Don't care what people say
I wish you happiness to us,
We will definitely be together!

I wish you more strength
To love life madly,
And blinding your loved ones with the light,
Congratulations on February 23!

Congratulations, ardent tiger,
From February 23,
From your hot glances
I go crazy sometimes.

On this holiday I wish all men
To stay strong
And my beauty
As before, I admired it.

Let the flame of passion not go out,
Consumes you and me
Fantastic man
My sweet, insane sin.

You are a real man
And my brilliant protector,
Your powerful back
Like a reliable wall.

My man is gentle, passionate,
Congratulations on your wonderful day,
Happy Twenty-third of February.
I wish you strong strength!

My beloved, very passionate,
Happy holiday to you,
On the twenty third of February
I won't forget about you!

Always strong-willed decisions,
Live without a shadow, so that doubts
Know for sure what you want
It's true to make your dreams come true.

Moods with enthusiasm,
And love for us without strife,
Let the fire always burn,
Let the words be tender!

Congratulations, ardent macho,
The most passionate of men
Protect me from boredom
Only you can do it.

On men's day I wish you
To fire with caresses,
To amaze with mad passion,
To keep the drive in your blood boiling.

Sexy, my passionate man,
For me, my beloved, you are a hero!
Let any peak in life
Submit to you, dear!

May luck, perseverance and work
Help you make your dreams come true!
Let money flow to you like a river,
May you be rich and successful!

The main holiday of all men is approaching - Defender of the Fatherland Day on February 23. As always before the holidays, funny SMS congratulations on February 23 are in great demand for male colleagues, friends, brothers, lovers, husbands, fathers, grandfathers, classmates. Congratulations on February 23 with humor will bring a lot of pleasure to your beloved men.

One of the most beloved Russian holidays is approaching - Defender of the Fatherland Day on February 23. Now there is no point in delving into history and remembering what kind of event happened many, many years ago on this day, now February 23 is a holiday beloved by all the people, which by default has become a holiday not only for those related to the armed forces, but and All Men's Day. By the way, in lately February 23rd became a day off (this year, alas, the holiday falls on a Saturday, so the legal additional day off will have to wait a little longer).

Having warmed up on the overseas Valentine's Day on February 14, women, girls, girls, grandmothers recklessly congratulate their beloved men - friends, lovers, work colleagues, fathers, brothers, grandfathers, great-grandfathers, classmates and generally all males. The beautiful half of humanity sends humorous and serious SMS congratulations and e-cards in prose and poetry to their beloved men, gives expensive or simply cute gifts, secretly hoping that colleagues and friends, brothers and lovers will not remain in debt and will give their all on March 8, which is also just around the corner.

Piter .tv congratulates all men on February 23 and shares options for funny and serious congratulations on February 23 to colleagues and all other men, because humor is always wonderful!

Men's affairs are different,

Both amorous and military.

We only wish for victories,

And on the roads the right color.

So that the heart glows tremblingly,

Love always warms.

Well, to complete the picture,

So that everything in the wallet is in order.

I wish you success, I wish you good luck,

It is easy to rest and work with dedication.

So that joy is more common in your destiny,

So that everything comes out and everything works out.

I wish you optimism

Love and magnetism,

Health and wealth,

Don't give up on your dream

Be mobile, active,

Fit, athletic,

You are my best!

We congratulate you today,

With all our hearts we wish you:

Happy days and tender caress,

Sweet princess from a fairy tale,

A difficult victory in the struggle -

Let everything go to you!

Congratulations to our beloved men

And on this day we wish you,

Always be at the helm in life,

Solve all problems brilliantly,

And in any situation

Don't miss your luck

And live in harmony with yourself!

We congratulate the men with warm words.

Always pampering us and making us happy,

Through life you walk next to us,

You always lend your shoulder to us.

We express our gratitude to all of you,

I wish you health for many years to come,

We wish you love and prosperity!

The twenty-third has arrived,

It mowed down all the men -

All the glasses are poured,

And today they celebrate.

There's nothing wrong here

I will say a simple word -

You men, rest,

And you don’t know any problems at all!

The Earth has been inhabited by people for a long time,

The man has always been the protector of the clan.

We congratulate you on behalf of all the people.

Defend the Fatherland reliably

Entrusted to you by the country by right.

With all our hearts we want to wish you

Health, happiness, honors and glory!

Congratulations, brother!

What can you wish for a man?

Temptations to know everything

Stop in time

And someone worthy of falling in love with!

So that your dreams come true,

And life seemed like a fairy tale!

We wish you, real men,

To be the captain of a ship in life,

Forward on the right course to those looking,

And always be ready for exploits,

Take part in all useful activities,

You also love your homeland devotedly.

We wish you love, health, happiness!

We congratulate you and want to say:

Defender - there is no nobler task,

And let the wonderful qualities of men

It will also add romance,

After all, women are sensitive to words,

Let your personality remain strong

She will be able to love, good luck to you!

Don't think about the bad in vain!

My dear colleague,

Do not be sad on such a day!

You are a man - don't forget

Be a leader in life

May all the best come

And good luck always awaits!

Good luck, successful decisions and more pleasant reasons for joy, long-awaited victories and accomplishments, a bright life, love and wonderful ideas, achieving your dream goal, meeting with your closest people and friends and good luck in all your endeavors!

Happy Men's Wishes Day,

Happy Adoration Day and Happy Attention Day,

Happy “Anything Is Possible” Day and Happy “Anything As You Want” Day,

Happy "I'll surprise you this night" Day

Happy "beer, football, pies" Day,

Happy Day of real men, men.

I sincerely congratulate you

At home, at work, on the road, at the resort,

at the cinema, fishing, in a cafe, at work,

in the sports center and bar, on a visit, in the store,

at the dacha, in bed, on the highway in the car,

in the office, in traffic jams, on the Internet,

on the street, in the city, in the whole world

to be the best, to be the first, and to succeed in everything -

This is what I WANT to WISH for you!

I want to quit studying,

Have you withered away from boredom?

Cool attraction try...

A whole year in kirzachs!

Get an A+, my friend.

The army knows how to wait!

Like many years in a row,

Girls love soldiers!

Strong, brave and courageous,

You are every girl's dream!

I love your attitude!

Be like a soldier, always in formation!

And oh-oh-a lot of money!!!

Even though you didn't serve in the infantry,

Haven't you driven a tank?

But you are a fighter at work...

Both in drinking and in partying!

You don't look like a good soldier

You can't tell a grenade from a grenade!

But for me you are a knight and a hero,

And that means this holiday is definitely YOURS!!!

My dear man!

I want to congratulate you

Without you, my dear,

It is very difficult to imagine life!

Let the sabers be sheathed,

And you're not in uniform at all

We need each other so much

In this hectic world!

I always hold on to you

My life is not enough without you,

I'm so proud of you

Like soldiers as a general!!!

You are as brave in love as in battle,

No wonder I'm giving you...

You're almost an eagle already

Read the congratulations:

Tra-la-la-la-la-la-la!

It's frosty and cloudy outside,

*** is worth it just in case,

And not a ruble in my pocket,

If in the morning you forgot what you drank and who you were with,

This congratulatory SMS is for my best defender. I am so glad that there is such a person next to me whom I can always trust, and that I do not need to be afraid of anything, because you will always protect me and shelter me from all troubles

We served together a lot,

friends, our union is wonderful!

The army welded us tightly together,

do not break the sacred bonds!

I am happy about this men's holiday,

February, congratulations!

To be on a horse in life, dashing,

Well, in my soul, I wish to be an angel!

My beloved and gentle man, I congratulate you on February 23, I want to wish you as many achieved goals and completed plans as possible, may every day you climb another step on the ladder of success, always be lucky and loved by fate and those around you.

Peaceful life and peace,
May they always be with you
Endless luck
Fighting mood.

Well, for now, an important man,
From February 23,
Congratulations and wish
Always maintain your tone!

On such a day I wish you strength,
Always be resilient.
To conquer on a hot bed,
Hot to take me captive.

Dear, happy February 23rd to you! As a true defender of the Fatherland, a real courageous and strong man, I wish you to fulfill your marital duty with honor, zeal for battle and great dignity.

My husband, you are my main hero,
My friend, my strong protector!
Let your hearts beat side by side
True love, without end!

You are a support, a reliable shoulder,
You solve everything easily and boldly.
I know the impossible will come true,
If you, husband, get down to business.

On Defender's Day, let everything work out,
How did you wish, my love,
May all joys instantly multiply,
Luck doesn't pass you by.

My only, beloved husband. Congratulating you on February 23, I want to say that I constantly feel your reliable protection from problems, worries and loneliness. I wish you heroic health and brilliant victories on all your, but only peaceful, fronts.

I prepared a gift
And later I'll give it to you,
It will be very, very sweet
I'm telling you for sure.

My man, dear, passionate,
From February 23rd.
No magic kisses
I can't live even a day.

Happy February 23, my dear lover. You are brave, courageous, strong, fearless, be like that in any situation in life. I also wish you to always be on a horse, hold luck by the tail, and be able to give a good beating to any opponent. Remain my hero, protector and noble man.

Even though we don't meet often,
But today is this day,
I'll tell you, my dear,
It's not too lazy to wait for you,
Happy Defender's Day, my sweetie,
My dear lover,
I believe the day will come soon,
And you will be only mine!

My dear protector! Nothing threatens me with you around. You protect me from loneliness, boredom, despondency and melancholy. I wish you to feel like a real man in all situations, and I will try to provide you with worthy company. Happy February 23, beloved!

Dear husband, happy wonderful day to you -
Happy Defender of the Country Day!
Always be dangerous to your enemies,
For the family - like a wall!

Happy February 23, my dear husband,
I'm the happiest in the world when you're next to me,
You are my protector and knight, you are my lover and friend,
I wish you happiness and good luck, my husband.

Let it burn in your heart
Valor is always fire.
Exciting as before
Your tender palm.

From the day I am next to you, protector,
There is always a blue sky above me.
May the clouds never obscure it,
May life be bright, endless, easy!

You protect me with your love,
Without you, dear husband, I don’t want to live a day,
Your word in the family is my covenant and law,
Always be as brave, beautiful, and strong!

Congratulations, my husband, on your holiday - the Day of True Men. I wish you to always be full of strength and energy, so that both your family and your Motherland can sleep peacefully.

On a February day for you, my husband,
I hasten to congratulate you as soon as possible,
I want to wish you happiness
And add a kiss.

Smart, kind, the most honest,
Strong, brave, interesting -
Husband, it's all about you
Happiness is in my destiny!

To be healthy and successful,
I love you very much
And I'll tell you honestly,
I'm really looking forward to our meeting!

What a pity that you are not around now,
That it’s not me who will hug you,
What will the wife kiss first?
Congratulates you on your holiday.

Honey, happy February 23rd! I wish you to be not just a beloved husband, not an ordinary defender of the Fatherland, but a hero who can conquer any difficulties! And may your masculinity, strength and success make you a happy person!

My husband, on your holiday I will say,
And believe me, there is no flattery in the words -
I cherish every moment,
What I spent with you.

My protector, beloved husband,
Accept, my dear, congratulations.
February is at least a month of winter cold,
I wish you a summer mood.

Be the same healthy, businesslike person.
So that every day is happy,
Always be my support and protection,
And I will be your faithful and reliable rear.

Congratulations to the best man, my true hero, the most magnificent handsome man, the bravest person, that is, you, on February 23! Have amazing fun today and good health for life!

The month of February is coming to an end.

An unusual gift would be a book with unique content, published in a small edition or in an interesting genre. It will be difficult to leave such a gift without admiration.
Ashtrays are selected for men who smoke self made, good variety tobacco or cigar sets, lighters.

They practice original gifts from a joke store. But the main thing is not to overdo it, because a woman’s psychology and understanding of things is deeply different from a man’s worldview.

Whatever gift you choose for February 23, do not forget to sincerely congratulate your beloved men in words, regardless of their profession. Wish for real male power, masculinity, resourcefulness and self-confidence in any life situation and good health.

For those who have the whole world on their shoulders
Has been holding one for thousands of years,
I am writing congratulations on February 23
And I send you my bright greetings!

Let on February 23
Dreams come true with ease!
I wish you -
Let everything work out!

Men give peace, love, warmth and security,
With the men they love, all women become more beautiful!
Our country is always calm - it has strength,
And each of our men is called by this power!

From February 23
Congratulations to everyone, friends!
And let the holiday not be in vain:
Jokes, laughter, happiness, peace and kindness!

I wish you love
+23 - warm weather,
To look 23
Lived without slowing down!

Today I congratulate you,
I'll give you a nice gift,
I'll turn up the volume on the radio,
I'll go to bed and call you!

Are you civilian or military?
But you were not born in vain!
Today is an awesome holiday
From February 23rd. Imagine opening a gift
And you look forward to pleasure,
And there's lotion or socks,
And you are burning with melancholy!

Don't let this happen
They give more expensive things,
What you need!
Happy February 23rd!

Congratulations on the twenty-third,
You are a real man!
Happiness, joy, longevity
Let them surround you instantly!
I wish you to be healthy
And stay cheerful -
And then, I promise,
Everything in life will be a bundle!

Today is your holiday, men,
We wish you, without skimping,
Health, money, two cars,
Sleep with your beloved and eat to your heart's content! You are an amazing man
Your character is so good
He is truly extraordinary
After all, you won’t find anything kinder,

February 23rd is Defense Day,
And we congratulate you men,
Be strong like lions
After all, you are a support, and we need you so much.

I wish you defenders,
May you have plenty of strength!
So that happiness is with you,
May you always be lucky in business!

May your holiday not be so good,
Like women's eighth of March.
But congratulations are not a lie,
And that love that is pleasant.

Happy Defender's Day!
At this glorious, special hour -
We wish with great respect,
So that everyone can look up to you only.

We wish you to always be loved,
We wish you to be irresistible!
May your days be easy
We wish you happiness, guys!

Today is a men's holiday,
Today is men's day!
We congratulate you
Our dear defender!
May strength, vigor, courage -
They will always be with you!

On February 23, I wish you
Be happy and beautiful
Wonderful and cute!
I love you anyway
Stay mine!

I congratulate you on the twenty-third of February
Men, defenders of their native land.
And the Russian land sleeps peacefully
While such brave souls defend it!

Men! I want to congratulate you on the holiday
All those whom we value and are proud of.
After all, you are our support and hope!
So be kind to us
And be more patient, as before!

May your family respect you, may your wives love you,
And the sons admire the courage!
We wish you male happiness and good luck,
Good health for many years to come!

On the day of a real man
I want to congratulate you, (Name).
And wish you to be happy,
May you be healthy and loved!
Was steadfast and invincible
In a difficult life battle.

The twenty-third of February is a wonderful day,
Taking this moment, congratulations!
Be strong, be brave every day,
I want to be a real man!

Darling, I hasten to congratulate you on the 23rd,
You are the best of men and I appreciate you.
I want you to be happy and I love you!
That everything was fine, we protect you as an angel!

Darling, happy holiday to you -
Happy twenty-third of February!
In my eyes, you are a real general,
After all, even without a weapon he conquered me!

Always be strong, reliable,
Rus'-land believes in you.
I know that I can believe in you.
Happy twenty-third of February!

Russia has stood for centuries and to this day,
And her adversaries tremble before her.
After all, there are Alyosha, Ilya and Dobrynya,
May God grant them health and true friends!

Happy Defender of the Fatherland Day,
More strength, less wars!
There is nothing warmer in the world of thought,
What's wrong with you, like behind a wall!

Let our Motherland become
In the continuous flow of days
Stronger, richer and more beautiful
Under your reliable protection!

Congratulations to you (Name) on February 23rd.
Success, joy in work,
Good luck to you in your men's hunt!
A yacht for you, a luxurious dacha
And a lot of gold for you, too.

Twenty third of February -
A holiday of courage and kindness.
We always shout Hurray!
Congratulates the child:
Happiness, joy, warmth!

Service people, daring,
Have fun, dance and sing!
You've earned this right
All men - honor and glory!

Without boasting of title or rank,
Let's not forget army friendship.
And let's drink like the men who served
For the glory of the Motherland and Russian weapons.

February 23 is not a red day on the calendar,
Not red, know, not a day off,
Not red, no, it's gold.
And the holiday, we know, is big!

Defender, today is your day by right!
After all, you stand guard over the Motherland.
You are the shield of the country, you are a brave warrior!
And you will protect your loved ones from the enemy.

Strength and courage, honor and courage
You are our joy and our consolation!
Defender of the Fatherland, friend or brother
May your life be full of rewards.

The strongest, kindest, bravest,
You will “put down” the offender with one “left”.
I'm behind you like behind a wall,
I'm not afraid of frost and heat!

You are not just a man, you are a warrior,
Worthy of praise today:
You will come out to defend the Fatherland.
In a hard time, you won’t die from trouble

May there be a peaceful sky above your head,
Let the gun gather dust in the corner.
Defender of the Fatherland, any fight
Let your heart be ready!

You might not be a protector
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In our country, many people by the phrase “true love” understand the so-called “beautiful” love between a man and a woman: courtship during the candy-bouquet period, dates full of romance and walks under the moon, gifts to the other half and new impressions from the relationship. It is believed that all of the above is a guarantee of happiness in the family until the end of days. Everything changes, you just have to look at the divorce statistics. The period of dreams and walks under the moon gives way to ordinary days. The first family quarrels appear, spouses begin to notice shortcomings in their partner, and it is as if the passion never existed. What's going on? It is in such moments, when blind passion goes away, that a much stronger feeling should remain - love. Many people are unfamiliar and incomprehensible with this feeling, when all that the heart requires is for the beloved to feel good. So what is love? Does it exist between a man and a woman?

Love is…?

Each person understands this word in his own way. It is difficult to describe what love is. You can talk about it a lot and for a long time. There can be many manifestations of this feeling, and therefore it is characteristic of everyone. For example, love between a man and a woman , to the Fatherland, to God, to occupation, to life and peace. This is one of the most beautiful feelings on Earth, but at times it can lead to negative consequences. Everything, of course, depends only on how you experience it.

Many philosophers have tried to describe love, but the explanation of this phenomenon still remains difficult. The feeling appears suddenly when you don't expect it. It seems to be born from a small coal and over time, especially if the love is mutual, it flares up into a real fire. It is impossible to plan, warn, program or fake falling in love. It can only be felt with all your heart.

The love between a man and a woman is incredibly strong. At the same time, an attitude towards a partner develops in which your half becomes much more important than you, and the whole world as a whole. It’s not just emotions that change, the very perception of the surrounding reality changes. Through love, people learn a lot of new things and realize life in different colors.

Stage 1 - sympathy

There are several types of love, and the most “harmless” of them is sympathy. We show sympathy to people for whom we feel love and whom we like.

Stage 2 - tender love

The next stage after sympathy is falling in love. This is a much stronger kind of love. Relationships between a man and a woman often begin after mutual love. This type most often and most clearly manifests itself between teenagers, and it can occur both to people of the same age and to older people, for example, to popular actors, artists, performers, teachers, etc. Often, love moves to the next stage - into strong Love.

It happens that falling in love, especially if it manifests itself towards an older person or younger age(for example, for an artist, that is, such love is “out of reach”), ends sadly. It takes over all thoughts, does not allow you to make informed decisions and draw clear conclusions, it develops incredibly quickly, suppressing the voice of reason. Falling in love is a feeling when thinking about one specific person does not allow you to live in peace; a person’s brain is always busy only with reflecting on good memories of his/her fiancée and idealizing him/her. At such moments, a person loses all meaning in life without a loved one. Against the background of such sensations, poems, songs are created, books are written and absolutely unthinkable acts are committed.

At an older age, falling in love quickly develops into passion under the influence of hormones and various situations: strong feelings, holiday romance or any events that coincided with secret fantasies.

Stage 3 - violent passion

The most important stage of love between a man and a woman is passion. Quite often, in such relationships, selfless love fades into the background. And sex between a man and a woman becomes the main driving force. This is a very deep feeling beyond any control. This is a game that flares up more and more until routine, boredom and ordinariness appear. Such relationships are based solely on the sexual attractiveness of the partner, insane attraction and the delivery of physical pleasure. There are often cases when such passion becomes painful for one of the partners and develops into an incredibly difficult phenomenon - mania.

For ordinary people, passion is a temporary stage of love. If you look at the statistics, they will show that this feeling lasts on average from 5 months to 3 years. If you have ever heard the expression “love lasts three years,” then this statement refers precisely to the opinion of the scientific community that by the third year of a relationship, less and less hormones are released in the brain, and, accordingly, feelings subside. However, such a phenomenon in itself is a fire, a hunger that cannot be satisfied by anything, delight and lust.

Stage 4 - romantic love

A wonderful stage of a relationship is romantic love, when the foundation of great love is laid. This is the stage when people enjoy their feelings and emotions from each other. Typically, it is with this development of relationships that reproductive function is ensured. Now everyday life will prevail over the feeling of romance and passion. It is at this moment that most “rose-colored” glasses break, and partners begin to notice shortcomings. However, there are couples in which the above elements of the relationship accompany their family throughout their lives. We can conclude that romantic love is the final stage before tender love in the family.

Stage 5 - “true” love

Family love is a feeling that develops between people who want to always be together. This absolutely normal love between a man and a woman exists when they become one and are ready to accept all the joys and sorrows of their partner. After all, to truly love means accepting a person completely and living his life.

Signs of a “true” feeling

When two people truly feel love for each other, they will overcome all obstacles and difficulties just to be together. Their relationship is accompanied by a constant struggle for their feelings, despite gossip or other people's speculations. Love settles where understanding and mutual support reign.

A real feeling cannot but be mutual. Feelings such as lust, sexual attraction, passion are just a desire to completely possess someone, dictated by one’s own egoism.

In any circumstances indeed close person will always be there to support and say comforting words. He will cover your back in the most difficult moments in life. No matter how difficult and difficult it is, you can always find the mental strength to help the person you love.

A woman who is in search true love, will never waste time on a “one-day” relationship with a person in whom she is not sure. She does not need to prove anything with her relationship either to her relatives, or to her acquaintances, or to anyone else.

We become better, prettier and more attractive next to our lover. But you cannot sacrifice anything or do anything that is at odds with your personal interests. Of course, no one will argue that building a family is hard work, but it should not become a burden.

How to show love?

There are literary sources about the “language of love,” which argue that all people imagine its manifestations in completely different ways. Some people like tactile touch. A certain part of people tries to spend a little more time together, and there are those for whom gifts are an obligatory sign of attention.

Additionally, both genders interpret love differently. First, men and women have different ideas about love itself. Secondly, ideas about the manifestations of this feeling in relationships also differ. Very often these differences become an insurmountable barrier in relationships.

Every person strives for this sublime feeling and craves it. For men, love is absolute unity, complementation of each other, an obligatory part of which is respect and trust. It is impossible to show love to a person whom you do not trust and whom you simply do not respect. Those who have a more “masculine” type of thinking (the vast majority of men) expect trust and respect from love. Those who are “feminine” types (the predominant part of women) also crave both respect and trust, but their expectations are inextricably associated with actions that are aimed at demonstrating these feelings.

Men also like to be hugged, but rather moderately. At the same time, girls expect that expressions of feelings towards them will be regular and unrestricted. A lady who presents a bouquet of flowers to a representative of the stronger half of humanity will never achieve the same effect (after all, men have a completely different perception of love and gratitude) as a man giving flowers to a woman. You should not express a noble feeling the way you like it. Show it in a way that pleases your partner.

Each person has their own definition of this feeling. Someone is convinced that love is the ability to give one’s life for a loved one; in his understanding, it is the desire and desire to make the other half happy. There can be many such definitions, and, for sure, we are all right in our own way, putting something of our own into the concept of what true love is.

What is love from a spiritual and material point of view

Explaining love from a biochemical point of view

Biochemists do not deny that love can be called one of the most complex feelings, and it is simply impossible to fully explain it using any scientific model. And yet, a number of studies help to see what exactly happens to a person during this period.

Scientists consider this concept as a complex process of imprinting, which is based on the interaction of psychological experience, the influence of hormones, and genetic factors. As a result, everyone has certain internal guidelines that operate at the subconscious level - they immediately determine a suitable partner. This orientation matrix is ​​also called a love map.

As is known, various biochemical stimuli can activate a romantic reaction. According to scientists, pheromones can have a noticeable effect on this process. We are talking about the smells that arise during sexual desire. Note that in the sweat of men there is a chemical substance called androstenol - it is this that attracts certain women. In turn, the composition of female vaginal secretion includes substances called copulins. Some time ago, control experiments were even conducted encouraging men to inhale this substance! As a result, it turned out that copulins have the power to increase a woman’s sexual attractiveness.

When the attraction stage begins, the brain is exposed to phenylethylamine, which has an effect similar to amphetamines and other euphoric drugs. This process captivates people, having an exciting effect on them. And yet, it is important to note that gradually the impact sometimes weakens, and then the search for a new partner may begin - thus, the person seeks to experience the previous euphoria.

Explaining love from a spiritual perspective

Of course, Christianity also has its own opinion on this matter. This word characterizes various states, and which ones exactly depend on the person’s worldview. His purity of heart and personal “life feat” are taken into account. First of all, from a spiritual point of view, love is expressed in the ability to sacrifice, and learning to sacrifice is very difficult. It is believed that this is opposed by such qualities as selfishness, pride, selfishness, which close the heart in a circle of concern only for one’s own good, one’s own benefit. If a person is not capable of sacrifice for the sake of another in big matters and everyday life, then there can be no talk of love. In this case, striving for our own happiness, in the end we do not achieve it, remaining alone - dissatisfaction will remain, even if we managed to experience many earthly pleasures.

There is an opinion that spiritual person has a sharp mind, a developed sense of aesthetics, extensive knowledge and remarkable upbringing. However, according to Orthodoxy, without love in the heart, all these qualities are insignificant.

Definition of love in your own words, briefly and clearly

In short, and to summarize all the reasoning of biochemists and representatives of Orthodoxy, we can say that true love is the desire to take care of another person and make him happy. At the same time, desire must invariably turn into action.

What does love mean in a person's life

Many are convinced that only love can give meaning to life, and, of course, it is almost impossible to argue with this. Often, love passes through a person’s entire life, one way or another. First, we have this strong feeling for our parents or educators, then for our friends, then our “first love” comes for a representative of the opposite sex, for children, for the Motherland, for life, for nature, for God, for humanity, and so on. In this case, the sequence may be different, but be that as it may, you cannot do without love. Some people believe that this gift helps to reach the top in life, but there are also people who are convinced that because of it they have lost something important and necessary in their lives - everyone, of course, has their own story and their own truth.

Be that as it may, but without love a person dies morally. If he had to grow up in anger, then he himself ends up becoming embittered at everyone around him, as if wanting to take revenge on them for their suffering. Without carrying love in his heart, a person does not know compassion and does not know what forgiveness is - as a result, he often feels emptiness within himself, without even fully realizing where it came from.

Meanwhile, love gives us the opportunity to find in life all the benefits necessary for complete happiness - harmony, understanding, trust, respect, compassion. A person who loves and is loved receives a powerful incentive for growth - spiritual, career, and so on. He learns to set clear goals for himself and has the strength to achieve them. One day, many of us come to the conclusion that when love comes first, other values ​​and benefits also take their place.

Why do we fall in love with some and ignore others?

(often more profitable and attractive partners)

Surely you know the expression “stepping on the same rake.” Often it is used when certain stories from personal life are heard. Many men and women choose partners who are in many ways similar to their previous passions, and often do not even realize it. Why is this happening?

There are three reasons for this phenomenon:

1) The ideal is in the subconscious. From a young age, the image of an ideal partner appears in the subconscious of many men. It can be formed under the influence of many factors - a mother, a movie heroine, an attractive and kind neighbor, and so on. Years will pass, and a man may not even remember why he is in awe of, for example, brunettes and girls with green eyes. Of course, the ideal consists of several characteristics that do not necessarily have to be “perfect” in the generally accepted concept. As soon as a young man nevertheless meets a girl who has at least some qualities idealized by him in the subconscious, he begins to feel for her strong feelings. Moreover, sometimes such meetings are perceived by a man as a gift of fate, an amazing coincidence or a dream that unexpectedly came true. In reality, such acquaintances have nothing to do with a miracle - they are the result of a subconscious search for an ideal partner.

2) Narcissism. Oddly enough, narcissism also sometimes plays a role in finding the ideal partner. You've probably heard more than once a guy say about his beloved: “We are so similar!”, “She has the same tastes in food as me,” “We have the same sense of humor, we understand each other.” without a word,” “She also had problems with her parents as a child.” Considering ourselves ideal or disadvantaged in some way, we see these traits in other people, considering them close to us in spirit. Since a person often loves himself, he is ready to extend this feeling to the one in whom he, to one degree or another, sees himself reflected.

3) Oedipus complex. There is an opinion that almost every man carries an Oedipus complex - this can be expressed quite clearly or weakly. What do you mean? Whatever one may say, if a boy grows up with his mother, then she involuntarily becomes the first woman for whom he begins to experience strong feelings. Yes, they have certain differences from the feelings that he will subsequently experience for a peer, but still they are very strong and leave a certain imprint. To many boys, their mother seems “the most beautiful in the world,” “the smartest,” and so on. Subconsciously this attitude may remain. As a result, from his youth the young man will pay attention to girls who have some resemblance to his mother. This could be a character trait, hair color, manner of speaking, housekeeping and much more.

The exact opposite situation may also arise. If a man had a difficult relationship with his mother, and he cannot remember some moments from his childhood without shuddering, then he will probably look for a partner who will have as little as possible in common with his parent.

How to understand whether you love a person or not

Let's consider the signs of love that arise directly from a man to a woman.

Signs of true love

Sexual attraction

If you experience a strong sexual desire for a certain person, then it is possible that the matter is not limited to this, and you are truly in love. Probably, many people know stories when, after many years of marriage, the feelings of the spouses fade away, and this leads to the fact that they stop “wanting” each other. If there is attraction, then there is a place for love - of course, the first can exist without the second, but a man’s love for a woman without sexual desire is rare.

Soul contact

As we have already mentioned, sexual desire can be one of the signs of love, but a much more serious indicator is the tendency to have emotional contact with a person. You want to be in the company of a certain girl, to know what her opinion is on this or that matter. This can manifest itself both in real meetings and in virtual communication, phone calls. If you feel the need to communicate with a certain girl, then this clearly indicates that you are not indifferent to her.

Interior space

Many men try in every possible way to limit their interior space within a certain framework, they strive for a certain freedom. If someone begins to encroach on the boundaries he has built, the man reacts quite painfully and sharply, however, if you feel that you do not want to hide anything from this girl, but on the contrary, you even want her to become the main part of your personal life, then Most likely, you fell in love.

Sacrifice

One of the most pronounced signs of true love. If you feel that for the sake of your chosen one you are able to change established habits, forget about some old hobbies, then this says a lot - it means that you are ready to make certain sacrifices, but this, of course, does not happen from scratch.

A reverent attitude

You may not care at all about what others think of you, what impression you make, what impact some of your words and actions have. However, all this does not apply to a specific girl. Her opinion is important to you, you don’t want to offend her, and it hurts you to realize that by some action you could have offended your chosen one. Of course, if the peace of mind and balance of a certain woman is important to you, then this is a sign of your love for her.

Care

When we love, we involuntarily strive to improve the life and care of our loved one in all respects. This can be expressed in small things (the desire to bring coffee to bed) or in more global appearances (buying her winter boots). Man, loving a woman, partly treats her as to your own child- It is natural for him to take care of her, including material ones.

Symptoms of showing love

If you love a woman, then this is determined by certain “symptoms”. You often think about her, go through your dialogues in your head, dream of meeting, want to know as much as possible about her, strive to be in her company often, want to do something nice for her.

Sometimes it can be very difficult to distinguish between these two feelings, since their external manifestations are very similar. And yet, there are also important differences. So, falling in love can break out after the first meeting, while true love takes some time to develop. As a result, falling in love can last only a short time (maximum 3 years), while true love only strengthens over the years and is not subject to time.

It is worth recognizing that love, like falling in love, causes a desire to possess the object of one’s feelings and communicate with him. However, we note that an individual in love first of all desires to receive pleasure and pleasure from contact with a loved one, while loving person, nevertheless, is more aimed at becoming a source of happiness for a loved one, even if he is not ready to give anything in return. Simply put, falling in love usually seeks to receive, and love tends to give. That is why falling in love can be called a completely common thing, but not all people are capable of sincerely loving. If you are capable of self-sacrifice for the sake of your soul mate, then the feeling of love is certainly familiar to you.

A person in love idealizes his partner, and when it turns out that he is not as perfect as expected, this begins to irritate and repel him. For a lover, everything happens differently - he initially sees everything negative aspects object of love, and accepts them.

If a person loves, then he does not demand return. Non-reciprocity is incapable of awakening hatred, anger and other negative feelings in him. If reciprocity cannot be achieved by a person in love, then he begins to experience a range of negative feelings towards the chosen one.

How is love different from affection?

It happens that people no longer feel love for each other, they begin to “look” at other possible partners, but do not part. They explain their union simply - they love each other, but now they are going through a difficult period. Of course, this happens, but most often the fact is that love has long given way to affection. How to determine this?

To begin with, let's try to formulate these terms. Love can be called an unconditional feeling for a person, which excludes pronounced negative emotions and impulses. A loving person sincerely wishes happiness to her chosen one. In turn, attachment is a conditional feeling for one’s neighbor, to whom one is quite familiar and negative emotions: fear of loss, dependence, heightened jealousy, demandingness.

Many psychologists have their own way of determining whether a person loves or feels affection. So, we suggest using this method. Imagine that you and your partner broke up quite a long time ago, and today you are simply remembering the time when you were together. What memories come up first, what emotions do you feel from the presence of this person in your life in the first place? Joy or dissatisfaction with something, dissatisfaction with something?

How else can you distinguish true love from attachment? It has been noticed that a person in love is quite active, and his main goal is to give to his beloved, to take care of his happiness, even if this brings discomfort to him. In turn, attachment can be accompanied by aggression and a heightened sense of ownership.

How to recognize if a girl loves you

Based on several very obvious signs, you can easily determine what emotions a girl feels for you and whether she loves you.

She cares about you

This can be expressed in both small and more serious manifestations. It is important for her that you are warm, that you are not hungry, and the like. She is ready to look after you when you are sick and so on. You can also mention taking care of your psychological peace. She tries once again not to upset you with unpleasant news or not to “burden” you with her problems.

She is eager to spend time with you

The girl enthusiastically responds to your proposals to meet, and may even cancel some plans if she had them before your invitation. She also periodically initiates dates herself. If you live together, she tries to be with you more often, even if you are busy with something and cannot give her attention right now. In general, it is important for her to be around you as often as possible.

Interest

She shows interest in your life, in your thoughts, in your daily routine. Simply put, she wants to know as much as possible about you - what you like, what you don’t like, how you like to spend your time, what you think about this or that, and so on.

Jealousy

Sometimes, jealousy is one of the signs that a girl is in love with you. She doesn't care who you talk to and spend time with, she wants to be the only girl you take seriously. Although, of course, in this situation we can also talk about a girl who is an owner.

Sacrifice

She is ready to make certain sacrifices for you. This could be some kind of concessions, changing your habits, changing your social circle, moving to another city and much more. She is ready to make a sacrifice for your sake, and considers this quite natural.

Surprises

A girl who has loving feelings for her chosen one wants to please and surprise him. As you know, this can be done with the help of gifts and surprises, and loving girl will be happy to use this method - she doesn’t mind spending time on arranging some surprise or a certain amount of money to please you with some interesting gift.

Quick-wittedness

A girl who loves strives for everything to be fine in her relationship with her partner; if you are in a quarrel, it upsets her, and she takes the initiative to reconcile. Even if you are wrong, she is trying to understand you, to get you to talk. If there is no serious love on the part of the girl, then it is unlikely that she will take the first step towards reconciliation.

Touch

When a girl does not feel strong love for her partner, or her feelings begin to fade, she loses the need for tactile contact - she does not strive to hug, kiss, or touch you as often as possible. Moreover, sometimes she may pull away if you initiate such signs of attention. A girl in love, of course, reacts reverently to the touch of her beloved, and she herself tries to touch him more often.